子(zi)云:"夫礼,坊民(min)所(suo)淫,章民之别,使(shi)民无(wu)嫌(xian),以为(wei)民(min)纪者也。故男女(nv)无 媒不(bu)交(jiao),无币不相见,恐男(nan)女之(zhi)无别也(ye)。以此坊民,民(min)犹有自献(xian)其身。《诗》云(yun): '伐柯如之何?匪斧(fu)不克;取(qu)妻如之(zhi)何?匪媒不得;爻刂麻如之何?横纵其(qi)亩; 取妻如(ru)之何?必告父(fu)母。'"
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