子云(yun):"夫礼(li),坊民所淫,章民之(zhi)别,使民无(wu)嫌,以为(wei)民纪者也。故男女(nv)无 媒不交,无币不相(xiang)见,恐男女之(zhi)无(wu)别也(ye)。以此(ci)坊民,民(min)犹(you)有自献其身。《诗(shi)》云(yun): '伐柯(ke)如(ru)之何?匪斧不克;取妻(qi)如之何?匪媒不(bu)得;爻刂麻如之何(he)?横纵(zong)其亩(mu); 取(qu)妻(qi)如之何?必告(gao)父母。'"
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