子云:"夫(fu)礼,坊民所(suo)淫,章民之别,使民(min)无嫌(xian),以为(wei)民纪者也。故男女无(wu) 媒不交(jiao),无币不相见(jian),恐男(nan)女之(zhi)无别(bie)也。以此坊(fang)民,民犹有(you)自献其身。《诗》云(yun): '伐柯如之何?匪(fei)斧不(bu)克;取妻(qi)如(ru)之何?匪媒不得;爻刂麻(ma)如之何?横纵其(qi)亩; 取妻(qi)如之(zhi)何?必(bi)告父母(mu)。'"
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