子云:"夫礼,坊民(min)所淫(yin),章民(min)之别,使民无嫌,以(yi)为民纪者也。故男女(nv)无(wu) 媒不(bu)交,无币不相见(jian),恐男女(nv)之无(wu)别也。以此坊民,民(min)犹(you)有(you)自献其身(shen)。《诗》云: '伐柯如之何(he)?匪斧不克;取妻如(ru)之何?匪媒不得(de);爻刂麻(ma)如之何?横纵(zong)其亩; 取妻(qi)如(ru)之(zhi)何(he)?必(bi)告(gao)父母。'"
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