子(zi)云(yun):"夫礼(li),坊民(min)所淫,章(zhang)民之(zhi)别,使(shi)民无嫌,以为(wei)民纪者(zhe)也(ye)。故男女无 媒不交,无币(bi)不相见,恐男女之无别也。以此坊民(min),民(min)犹有自献(xian)其(qi)身。《诗(shi)》云: '伐(fa)柯如(ru)之(zhi)何?匪斧不(bu)克;取妻如之何?匪媒不得;爻(yao)刂麻(ma)如之何?横纵(zong)其亩; 取妻如(ru)之何(he)?必告父母。'"
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