子云:"夫礼,坊民所淫(yin),章(zhang)民之别(bie),使民(min)无嫌(xian),以为民纪者也。故(gu)男(nan)女无 媒(mei)不交,无币不相见(jian),恐男女之无别(bie)也。以(yi)此坊民,民(min)犹(you)有自献(xian)其身。《诗》云: '伐柯如之何(he)?匪(fei)斧不(bu)克(ke);取妻如之(zhi)何?匪媒不得;爻(yao)刂(ce)麻如之何?横纵其亩; 取妻如(ru)之(zhi)何?必告父(fu)母。'"
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