子(zi)云(yun):"夫礼,坊民所淫(yin),章(zhang)民(min)之别,使民无(wu)嫌,以(yi)为(wei)民纪(ji)者也。故男女无 媒(mei)不交,无币不相见(jian),恐男女之无(wu)别也(ye)。以此坊民,民犹有自献(xian)其(qi)身。《诗》云: '伐柯(ke)如之何?匪(fei)斧不克;取(qu)妻如(ru)之何?匪媒不得;爻(yao)刂(ce)麻(ma)如之(zhi)何?横纵其亩; 取妻(qi)如(ru)之何?必告父母。'"
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