子云:"夫礼,坊民所淫,章民之别(bie),使民(min)无嫌,以为(wei)民(min)纪者也。故(gu)男(nan)女(nv)无 媒不交(jiao),无币不相见,恐男女之(zhi)无别也。以此坊民,民犹有(you)自献(xian)其身(shen)。《诗》云: '伐柯如之何(he)?匪斧不克;取(qu)妻如之何?匪(fei)媒不(bu)得(de);爻刂(ce)麻如之何?横(heng)纵其(qi)亩; 取(qu)妻如(ru)之(zhi)何?必告父母。'"
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