子云:"夫(fu)礼,坊(fang)民所淫,章民之(zhi)别(bie),使民无嫌,以(yi)为民纪者也。故男女(nv)无 媒不交(jiao),无币(bi)不相见,恐男女之无(wu)别也(ye)。以此坊民,民犹(you)有自(zi)献其(qi)身(shen)。《诗(shi)》云(yun): '伐柯如之(zhi)何(he)?匪斧不克;取(qu)妻如之何?匪媒不得;爻(yao)刂麻(ma)如(ru)之何?横(heng)纵(zong)其亩; 取妻如之何?必(bi)告(gao)父母。'"
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