子云:"夫礼,坊民所淫,章(zhang)民之别,使民无嫌(xian),以为民(min)纪者也。故男(nan)女无(wu) 媒不交(jiao),无(wu)币不相见,恐(kong)男女之无(wu)别也。以此坊民,民(min)犹(you)有自献(xian)其身。《诗(shi)》云: '伐柯如(ru)之何?匪(fei)斧不(bu)克;取妻如(ru)之(zhi)何?匪媒不(bu)得;爻(yao)刂麻如之何?横纵(zong)其亩; 取妻如之何?必告父母(mu)。'"
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