子(zi)云(yun):"夫礼,坊民(min)所(suo)淫,章(zhang)民之别,使(shi)民无(wu)嫌,以为民纪者也。故男女(nv)无 媒不交,无币不相见(jian),恐(kong)男女之(zhi)无别也。以此坊民,民(min)犹有自(zi)献其身。《诗》云: '伐柯如之何?匪斧(fu)不(bu)克;取妻如之何?匪(fei)媒(mei)不得;爻刂麻如(ru)之何(he)?横纵其亩(mu); 取妻如(ru)之何(he)?必告(gao)父(fu)母(mu)。'"
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