子云:"夫礼(li),坊民所(suo)淫,章民之别(bie),使(shi)民无嫌(xian),以为(wei)民(min)纪者也。故男(nan)女无 媒不交,无币不相(xiang)见,恐男女之无别也。以此(ci)坊民,民犹有自献(xian)其身。《诗》云: '伐柯如(ru)之(zhi)何?匪斧(fu)不克;取妻如(ru)之何(he)?匪(fei)媒不(bu)得;爻刂(ce)麻(ma)如之(zhi)何?横(heng)纵其亩(mu); 取妻如(ru)之何?必(bi)告父母。'"
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