子云:"夫(fu)礼,坊(fang)民所淫,章民(min)之别,使民无嫌,以为(wei)民纪者也。故(gu)男女(nv)无 媒不交,无币不相见,恐男女(nv)之无别也(ye)。以(yi)此坊民(min),民犹有(you)自献其身。《诗(shi)》云: '伐柯(ke)如(ru)之何?匪(fei)斧(fu)不克(ke);取妻如之何(he)?匪媒不得(de);爻刂麻(ma)如之(zhi)何?横纵(zong)其(qi)亩(mu); 取妻如之(zhi)何?必告父母。'"
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