子云:"夫礼,坊民所(suo)淫,章民(min)之别(bie),使民(min)无嫌,以为民(min)纪者也。故男女(nv)无 媒不交,无币不相见(jian),恐男(nan)女之(zhi)无别也。以(yi)此坊民,民犹有自(zi)献(xian)其(qi)身。《诗》云: '伐柯(ke)如之何?匪斧不克;取(qu)妻如(ru)之(zhi)何?匪(fei)媒不得(de);爻(yao)刂(ce)麻(ma)如之何(he)?横(heng)纵其亩; 取妻如之何?必告(gao)父母。'"
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