子云(yun):"夫(fu)礼(li),坊(fang)民(min)所淫,章(zhang)民(min)之别,使民(min)无嫌(xian),以(yi)为民纪者也。故男女无 媒不(bu)交,无(wu)币不相见,恐男女之无(wu)别也。以此(ci)坊民,民(min)犹(you)有自(zi)献其身。《诗》云(yun): '伐柯如之何?匪(fei)斧不克;取妻如之何?匪媒不得;爻刂(ce)麻如(ru)之何(he)?横(heng)纵(zong)其亩; 取妻如之何?必告父母。'"
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