子云:"夫礼,坊(fang)民所(suo)淫,章(zhang)民之(zhi)别,使民无嫌(xian),以为(wei)民纪(ji)者(zhe)也。故男女无 媒不交,无币不相见,恐(kong)男女之(zhi)无别也。以此坊(fang)民,民犹有自献(xian)其(qi)身。《诗》云: '伐柯(ke)如之何(he)?匪斧不克;取(qu)妻如(ru)之何(he)?匪媒不(bu)得;爻刂麻如(ru)之何(he)?横(heng)纵其亩; 取妻(qi)如(ru)之何?必告父(fu)母。'"
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