子(zi)云:"夫礼,坊(fang)民所(suo)淫,章民之别,使(shi)民(min)无(wu)嫌,以为民纪(ji)者也。故男(nan)女无(wu) 媒不交(jiao),无币不相见(jian),恐(kong)男女(nv)之无(wu)别也。以(yi)此(ci)坊民,民(min)犹(you)有(you)自(zi)献其身(shen)。《诗(shi)》云: '伐柯如之(zhi)何?匪(fei)斧不克;取妻(qi)如(ru)之(zhi)何?匪媒不得;爻刂麻如之何?横纵其亩; 取(qu)妻如之何?必告父母。'"
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