子云(yun):"夫(fu)礼,坊(fang)民所淫,章(zhang)民(min)之别,使民(min)无嫌(xian),以为民纪者也。故男(nan)女无 媒(mei)不(bu)交,无币(bi)不相(xiang)见,恐男女(nv)之无别也。以此坊民,民犹有(you)自献其(qi)身。《诗(shi)》云: '伐柯(ke)如之何?匪斧不克;取妻如之何(he)?匪(fei)媒不得;爻刂麻如(ru)之何?横纵(zong)其亩; 取(qu)妻(qi)如(ru)之何?必告父母。'"
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