子(zi)云:"夫礼,坊民所淫,章(zhang)民之(zhi)别,使民无嫌(xian),以(yi)为(wei)民纪(ji)者也(ye)。故(gu)男(nan)女(nv)无 媒不(bu)交(jiao),无币不相(xiang)见,恐(kong)男女之无别也。以此坊民,民犹有自献其身(shen)。《诗》云: '伐柯(ke)如之何?匪斧不(bu)克;取妻如之何?匪(fei)媒不得;爻刂麻如(ru)之何?横纵(zong)其亩; 取妻如之何(he)?必(bi)告(gao)父母。'"
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